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Can pastor dads control their kids?

Stephen M. Miller

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LIFE APPLICATION. What do you think churches today should do about Paul’s suggestion that candidates for church leadership should have all the ducks of their household lined up in a row? “I mean, come on,” Paul wrote, “If a man can’t manage his own family, how can he manage God’s church, full of families?” (1 Timothy 3:5).

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Some folks might agree with Paul. They wouldn’t be inclined to want a pastor who has an openly rebellious daughter or an adult son in prison.

Other folks argue that if the pastor is responsible in any way for the misbe­havior of his or her children, so are the churches. They often demand so much time of their ministers that the families of the ministers suffer because of it.

Someone in the church dies, gets sick, ends up in jail. Pastors get the holy version of a 911 call, and they’re on the road again, leaving their families in the rear-view mirror.

One approach to Paul’s suggestion is to filter it through his culture, when families were tied more closely to one another out of the need to survive in an agricultural age.

Then we’ve got to apply his suggestion to a culture today that is much more individualistic, with everyone going their separate ways while consulting their smart phones for guidance instead of asking Dad, Mom, or Uncle Henry.

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STEPHEN M. MILLER is an award winning bestselling Christian author of easy-reading books about the Bible and Christianity and author of the Casual English Bible® paraphrase. His books have sold over two million copies and include The Complete Guide to the Bible and Who’s and Where’s Where in the Bible.

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  1. George Stuart

    June 17, 2018 at 8:42 am

    I believe Paul was talking about minor children not adult children. Paul is right if a person can’t control his money or lustful desires then how can he handle a church full of sinners.

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  2. George Stuart

    June 17, 2018 at 8:43 am

    Sorry forgot, Happy Dads Day.

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  3. Richard Hagee, M.Div

    June 21, 2018 at 8:50 am

    Only, it seems, ministers, ministers’ wives or PKs know what long hours congregations expect when it comes to their ministers.

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