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I said something stupid

Stephen M. Miller
young woman with black tape over her mouth
THE ONLY GOOD MOUTH is a shut mouth. So it seems all too often. Even the Bible says it’s impossible to tame the tongue. But sometimes don’t you just want to hogtie it? Photo by silviadinatale© / flickr.

DO YOU KNOW what gets me into more trouble than anything else?

My mouth.

If you’re anything like me, once in awhile you experience a knee-jerk reaction of the mouth.

You know what I’m talking about. When you get a physical exam, the doctor tests your reflexes by tapping your knee to see if your leg jerks forward. You don’t have to think about it. Your leg just pops out there.

Well, I’ve discovered that my mouth works the same way.

Something strikes me odd, and my tongue just pops out.

I don’t have to think about it. The mouth is faster than the brain.

When our brain catches up, and we realize what a stupid thing we said, we have to decide what we’re going to do about it.

The Bible sums our problem this way, “People can tame all kinds of animals . . . but no one can tame the tongue” (James 3:7-8, NLT).

I can vouch for that. Just when I think I’m doing better, I say something hurtful again.

Once we’ve spoken, there are two ways to deal with it.

  • Pretend we never said it.
  • Accept the fact that once spoken, our words have come to life.

If you’ve said something hurtful to a friend, the words stand between the two of you like an invisible third person.

You can’t see that third person, but you sure can feel the presence.

There’s only one way to get rid of that intruder, and it’s with more words.

A Bible poet offers just the right ones, fit for many occasions: “I am deeply sorry for what I have done” (Psalm 38:18).

Those are hard words to say. But they’re powerful words once we’ve spoken them.

Here’s a prayer I’ve prayed:

“Lord, if I can’t train my tongue to behave perfectly, at least help me to slow it down a bit. And when it gets loose and causes trouble, give me the courage to apologize.”

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STEPHEN M. MILLER is an award winning bestselling Christian author of easy-reading books about the Bible and Christianity and author of the Casual English Bible® paraphrase. His books have sold over two million copies and include The Complete Guide to the Bible and Who’s and Where’s Where in the Bible.

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  1. Erin

    March 7, 2013 at 10:31 am

    Oh boy…I remember years ago when friend of mine who was also my discipleship teacher made me memorize EVERY verse in the Bible about the mouth/words/tongue and how they can cause so many problems. I still struggle with it to this day…as my counselor has said many many times: “Erin, 95% of the time you are right on the money. It is your delivery that is the problem”

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