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Grateful to grieve

Stephen M. Miller
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ROBERT V. HUBER was a friend, colleague, and mentor for me throughout most of my career. He died last week at age 86. In the end, I'm not sure he knew how important he was to those who knew him.

I LOST A GOOD FRIEND last week—a close colleague.

Robert V. Huber, retired Reader’s Digest Book editor.

He was there at the beginning, when I launched my freelance writing career in the mid-90s. He edited Bible background books, and he was one of the editors there in New York City who let me help write some of the Digest books.

When I visited the city many years ago, he took me out to eat. He had softshell crab and wore a bowtie. As we walked to the restaurant, I remember him sweet-talking that crab. He was eager to get a taste of it. The season for them had only recently started. I didn’t know they were seasonal until then.

I kept in touch with Bob after he retired. One day I called on him for help.

Lion Publishing in England had asked me to write a book about the history of the Bible—how we got it and the influence it has had on the world throughout history.

I couldn’t do it. My experience was with researching and writing about Bible times. Christian history was not my plug of ground. I emailed Bob and asked him if he wanted to co-author it with me.

He said yes.

When he thought he was dying

But he didn’t tell me he thought he was dying. He probably should have. But I’m glad he didn’t.

He was fighting tongue cancer.

Yet he wrote the best half of this book, The Bible: A History, which the Christian Broadcasting Council awarded the prize of Best Non-Fiction Book of the Year.

After we finished the book, Bob thanked me for saving his life.

That’s when he told me that he thought he was dying earlier, when I had emailed him about co-authoring the book. He said the work of writing the book gave him purpose and a reason to fight to stay alive.

That stunned me.

The very idea that I may have unknowingly helped keep him on the planet for what became almost another 20 years has become a wonderful and warm and cherished memory for me.

I had hoped to do it again.

I prayed for it.

Bob has been helping me paraphrase the Casual English Bible, as an editorial advisor. He has read every word of the Bible I have paraphrased so far: all the New Testament, Psalms, Proverbs, Song of Songs, and all the writings of Moses—up to Deuteronomy 6, when the sickness overpowered him in October.

He had been so looking forward to working with Deuteronomy, because he loved studying and teaching that book. He was a Roman Catholic and a Secular Franciscan who had master’s degrees in literature and in religious studies, along with post-master’s work in Scripture.

When I asked him to help me with the Casual English Bible he thanked me for treating him as though he still had value and could make a contribution to the world.

I was stunned again. How could he think he wasn’t valuable?

Does the comparative silence of retirement do that to good and gifted people?

What a waste if it does.

Bob contributed until he died. Valuable contributions. I wanted and needed his advice.

If others didn’t take advantage of what he still had to offer, it was their loss and it was my gain.

Failing health

Bob took a turn for the worse early this fall. He was still dealing with the long-term effects of radiation treatment.

Late in August, Bob wrote me his final email before he got too sick to help anymore. At the time, I was questioning the work I did in paraphrasing the Bible book of Numbers.

He said, “I think the text reads very well. I don’t know why you felt doubtful. It reads smoothly and makes sense. My main findings were typos and agreements between subject and verb. I fully realize now why the book is named Numbers! Good job. Keep going.”

He often sent encouragement like that when he sent his corrections and suggestions for revision. It wasn’t fake encouragement. He meant it when he said it.

The last email

He wrote me last on October 8, after I wrote him, asking how he was doing:

“I have been through a rough patch, but I AM feeling better. Hope to get working again soon. Thanks.”

I sit here, now, stunned again.

I’ve lost Bob as a friend, an encourager, and a cherished mentor.

But for most of my career, I’ve had him as a friend, an encourager, and a cherished mentor.

So I grieve, but I am grateful for such a friend worth mourning.

Yet in this moment, I feel orphaned. And I find it odd.

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STEPHEN M. MILLER is an award winning bestselling Christian author of easy-reading books about the Bible and Christianity and author of the Casual English Bible® paraphrase. His books have sold over two million copies and include The Complete Guide to the Bible and Who’s and Where’s Where in the Bible.

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  1. Wayne Sacchi

    November 8, 2021 at 8:46 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. What joy to have someone that encouraged you as you encourage others with your books. And those others encourage others with the books they received! That’s what you mean to me in my life. A few years ago, you sent a book to one of my friends who was planning to move (and he moved several times after that) is now in a Hospice Center in Maryland after chemo and radiation. That book was on his coffee table and others picked it up and looked at it and commented how enjoyable it was.

    God Bless You Stephen!

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    • Stephen M. Miller

      November 8, 2021 at 8:48 am

      Thanks Wayne.

      Reply
  2. Kimberly Owens

    November 8, 2021 at 4:46 pm

    What a wonderful tribute to your friend. Bob sounds like an awesome friend. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Bob’s story with us.

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    • Stephen M. Miller

      November 8, 2021 at 4:50 pm

      Thanks for your kind words Kimberly.

      Reply
  3. Susan M Smith

    November 8, 2021 at 8:48 pm

    Stephen, I am sorry to hear of your losing a good friend. May God comfort you as you grieve. May He grant you the peace that passeth all understanding.

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    • Stephen M. Miller

      November 8, 2021 at 9:01 pm

      Thank you, Susan. Peace to you.

      Reply
  4. Elaine West

    November 11, 2021 at 11:00 pm

    So sorry for your loss. Grief is so hard
    But I understand. I grieve everyday since losing Derrick to covid. But God gives us the strength to get up everyday. Praying for you.

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    • Stephen M. Miller

      November 12, 2021 at 9:55 am

      Thanks, Elaine.

      Reply
  5. Mary Ann

    November 12, 2021 at 12:29 pm

    Dear Steven,
    Thank you for your beautiful words about Bob. He was a wonderful man — gentle, thoughtful, humorous, and sacrificial. I had met him through our Secular Franciscan organizations back in the late ’80’s. He was very humble, also. It took us years to learn of his accomplishments in Bible studies and teaching and even later in the literary field with Reader’s Digest.

    I believe he and his friend, another spiritual Catholic layman had founded and worked at an AIDS ministry / hospice in the city. The fairly recent death of this other gentleman saddened him greatly. May you be consoled knowing that he is not far away, especially as you write about the Bible and faith.

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    • Stephen M. Miller

      November 12, 2021 at 12:48 pm

      Thank you, Mary Ann. I miss him everyday, working on this Bible paraphrase.

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